Archive for April, 2010

20
Apr

Is it Time to Re-examine Your Concept of Success?

   Posted by: JohntheMentor    in Encouragement, Ideas, Strategy

Today’s post comes courtesy of a guest blogger, Susan Henderson (www.susanhenderson.com).  I have been following Susan’s newsletter “The Successful Dilettante” for a couple of years.    If you like this post, I would encourage you to check out Susan’s website and sign up for her newsletter.

Is it Time to Re-examine Your Concept of Success?

In writing or speaking about success so many self help experts and gurus will tell you that if you just do exactly what successful people are doing then you will also have success.

As if it is a given that borrowing someone else’s concept of success is the best way for you to attain success.

In fact, I am a long time subscriber to an e-newsletter from a success coach I greatly admire and as I was preparing my notes and thoughts to write this article his latest issue dropped into my inbox and, lo and behold, his main article was based on this premise of success: “Success is the predictable result of doing the things that others have done to create or achieve the results we want in our lives.” It’s his belief that success is based on learnable skills and tasks. And he goes on to say that “as long as we live in a predictable, orderly universe, success is basically an engineering problem.” I mean no disrespect to this gentleman and although there were many points in this article that I agree with, this wasn’t one of them. Holy Moly – What a left-brained concept!

While I agree that practice makes perfect, I don’t agree that one size fits all when it comes to defining or even achieving success. Many people think success is a goal to be achieved somewhere out there in the future and is usually attached to fame and/or fortune. I believe success is an ongoing process and is congruent with doing what you love. Dare I say it – success could actually be considered an emotion we would all like to feel. It is personal and only you can define what success means to you.

So how do you define success for yourself? The best method I’ve learned came from my beloved mentor coach (from afar), the late, great Thomas Leonard. Several years ago, I attended a teleseminar where he shared a process in defining what is most important to you.

The first step is to choose an area of your life where you most want to define success and complete this sentence:
I know how successful I am by how [fill in the blank here].

The wording is important because it not only clarifies how you define success but, more importantly, how you know you are being successful at any given time. It’s a place to check in. You will want to tinker with your success definitions until they evoke a strong feeling response; and, possibly a tingle or shiver through your body.

Come up with at least three definitions, but ideally you will create a success statement for each of the areas of your life that matter to you. Here are some examples from my own life from what I value most:

Creativity: I know how successful I am by how delighted I feel when I am using my creativity.

Independence: I know how successful I am when I wake up and know that the pace and place of my day are totally determined by me.

Nature: I know how successful I am by how my connection with nature nurtures me.

I think you will be surprised by how quickly success begets success when you are armed with your own clear concepts of what it looks like and feels like for you.

With loving kindness,

Susan

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15
Apr

A Simple Way to Grow Your Busines

   Posted by: JohntheMentor    in Encouragement, Growing the Business, Strategy

Want a simple way to grow your business? You do? Are you sure? You are?

Okay. If you want to grow your business, then grow personally.

I know. You were hoping for a gimmick. A quick fix that would skyrocket your business and put you on top with no pain, little effort, and no thinking required on your part.

Me too. The trouble is, those things don’t really work –sustainably– in the real world. They are great for scams and for ponzi schemes. (And haven’t we had enough of those already?)

This idea of growing personally in order to grow your business is deceptively simple. Like an iceberg, there is a lot more here than meets the eye. In fact, there is so much here, we couldn’t begin to cover it all in one newsletter article. (But, no, that isn’t a threat that we will devote endless issues to it, either. :-) )

One of my mentors (Adam Urbansky) says, “You can only grow your business as fast as you can grow personally.”

And I can attest that this is true. My own business is completely intertwined with my personal growth. I have never grown so much as since I went into business for myself. And it hasn’t stopped. Also, I see it all the time in other people’s businesses. I have watched businesses fail because the owners refused to grow in their personal lives. My own brother’s forays into business are case studies in it.

I suspect that this is a significant component behind the oft-quoted statistics of the high failure rate of small businesses.

Business and the economic climate is changing around us all the time… ever faster and faster. As a result, what used to work in business, isn’t as effective as it once was. In order just to stay in place, we have to change and grow… and then grow some more.

I can state with certainty that your business volume, your customer mix, and your profit margins are not the same as they were only a year or two ago. Maybe they went up. Maybe they went down (the predominant experience for most businesses.) Either way, have you kept doing the same things you did two or three years ago or have you changed them? How’s that working for you?

And what if we want to get ahead… if we want to grow our business? Then we need to grow even more.

For most of us, this is not something we want to hear. We are wired to be comfortable and to stay in that comfort zone. Growth, especially personal growth, is uncomfortable. It is challenging.

The trouble is, change is not optional. Our business is going to grow or decline whether we want it to or not. And both of those directions create challenges. And neither is in our comfort zone.

Sure, there are a few adrenaline junkies who seek out challenge… they are noteworthy because they are the exception. The rest of us are couch potatoes who want to simply watch our favorite shows and not be bothered. And please keep things just the same.

When I was a project manager, I would remind team members and customers of a saying that I borrowed from my fiction-writing days –one of the formulas for plot. That saying? “Every solution carries the seeds of new problems.”

And it is true in life just as it is for good fiction (because fiction is a mirror of life.) I don’t know about you, but whenever I hear that saying I always get a picture of weeds shooting up in the lawn of life. That’s how many of us think of problems… weeds to be dealt with.

How are you going to address those problems? Albert Einstein said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”

Now, you may not have created the problem, but it exists in your business. Further, your business didn’t have a process and thinking in place to handle it. (How did I know? If you had, you wouldn’t have the problem in your business. It would have been dealt with when the problem first sprouted.)

So, how do we solve these problems? By growing.

Since I started the lawn and weed metaphor, allow me to continue it. Did you know that a healthy lawn that is being tended (mowed, proper water, good soil) will overcome weeds on it’s own? That’s right, no need for weedkiller, pulling weeds, or other drastic measures. It does this because the grass grows… and as it grows, it crowds out the weeds.

Just like the grass, as you tend yourself and your own personal growth, you will find that you naturally overcome the weeds (problems). And you know what? Just like we are discovering about organic gardens, this ongoing personal growth is the BEST thing you can do for your business, because it is sustainable… year after year.

The gains you achieve from your personal growth continue to be applied to your business, even as the economy changes. And, unlike the gimmicks, they continue to work, even if you change your business, even if the economy goes up or down, even if your competitor moves in next door to you (either physically or virtually.)

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I now have my CPC (Certified Professional Coach) designation. I have that because I took the training and passed the certification assessments. And I am proud of it.

While I have been offering coaching in addition to mentoring and consulting (though not as prominently as the mentoring), some people think they are pretty much synonymous. They aren’t, really. Each serves a different purpose.

Coaching is about helping you achieve your (relatively) short-term goals. Quite often, a coaching engagement will last for a block of 3 or 4 or 6 months. That is enough time to actually accomplish the short-term goals of most people. After that, many individuals have the tools they need to keep going on their own.

They may come back after a time with a new, bigger goal they need a coach to help with. After all, a coach is both a resource, a cheerleader, and an enabler. Some people need that coach to push them to greater efforts. They want to do it, but need the encouragement and accountability to make it happen.

A mentor, paid or unpaid, has a longer-term view in mind. He usually has a one-year to many-year viewpoint. His work with you is aimed at more ambitious and long-range development for you.

The mentor also brings a different set of tools and skills to bear in working with you. He is likely to have “been there, done that” in the specific industries, positions, or skill-sets that you are seeking help with. In many cases, you are paying for his wisdom. He will work with you to develop areas in you that need enhancing so that you can grow into your long-term goals. They may not always be comfortable.

A consultant does a different job. He works on a specific project with specific deliverables by a specific deadline. The consultant may be using a variety of tools to meet his deliverables. Those tools might be his wisdom, his experience, his knowledge, his industry know-how or skills, or some combination of all of them.

The consultant’s engagement could be for one day (as specific task or analysis) to a couple of years (a complex project with many different aspects of the consultant’s talents and skills utilized.)

As you can see, they each fill a different need. And different people have different talents. One individual might excel at being a coach, another as a mentor, and third as a consultant. Others are find it easy to be one or two of them. And, some, are able to be all three (although not at the same time in the same engagement.)

Have you had experiences with coaches? Or mentors? What is your take on it? Use the comments and let us know.

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